Antes de buscar tus 72 ex-vírgenes

.. en un paraíso de leche y miel, con brocados y todo el resto islámico... debes tener algunas esposas en esta tierra donde cumples la Jihad...
Si alguna no te respeta como esperas hay un procedimiento para enderezar su comportamiento acorde a enseñanzas milenarias:

Golpes "suaves" pero no en en el rostro
Como golpear en el rostro (hasta a los animales) no está permitido, pero si lo hicieses... trata de no desfigurarla...
Es una manera de expresarle: Mujer, te has extralimitado... y eso no puedo soportarlo!
Suaaave!
Debes golpearla donde tus muestras de cariño no dejen marcas visibles...
No debes hacerlo en la mano... sino en lugares donde tus expresiones acorde a las sagradas enseñanzas (no) causen daño alguno, como rotura de huesos, y contusiones sangrantes.
No debes hacerlo como se golpea a un animal o un niño... (wow!) abofeteando de izquierda a derecha...
Pero si piensas abandonarla porque tienes que renovar tu harem, tomas un cuchillo, le cortas la nariz y las orejas... y le echas agua hirviendo a su hijo (que ya no es tuyo) y los abandonas en alguna frontera pedregosa...
Allah te iluminará!
Si es la mujer de algún enemigo no islámico y hay guerra como disculpa... le cortas los senos para que no amamante más a sus engendros infieles.
The Koran (Quran) allows men to beat their wifes, and here are the rules.
[El corán permite a los hombres golpear a sus mujeres... y  aquí las reglas]
After watching this, you will no longer be able to claim ignorance of Islam.

QURAN 4:34 - "Men have authority over women because God has made the one superior to the other, and because they spend their wealth to maintain them.
Good women are obedient.
[Buenas mujeres son obedientes]They guard their unseen parts because God has guarded them.
[..]
As for those from whom you fear disobedience,
[Para aquellas de las que temas desobediencia]

1. admonish them and [amonéstalas]
   
2. send them to beds apart and [no las dejes compartir tu lecho]
   
3. beat them.  [golpéalas]

Then if they obey you, take no further action against them.
[Si ellas te obedecen, no tomes acciones siguientes contra ellas.]
Surely God is high, supreme."
[Ciertamente es Dios elevado, supremo]

 
youtube.com/watch?v=vVtqGkwED1w

Traducciones del pasaje en cuestión
•YUSUFALI: Men are the protectors and maintainers of women, because Allah has given the one more (strength) than the other, and because they support them from their means. Therefore the righteous women are devoutly obedient, and guard in (the husbands) absence what Allah would have them guard. As to those women on whose part ye fear disloyalty and ill-conduct, admonish them (first), (Next), refuse to share their beds, (And last) beat them (lightly); but if they return to obedience, seek not against them Means (of annoyance): For Allah is Most High, great (above you all).
•PICKTHAL: Men are in charge of women, because Allah hath made the one of them to excel the other, and because they spend of their property (for the support of women). So good women are the obedient, guarding in secret that which Allah hath guarded. As for those from whom ye fear rebellion, admonish them and banish them to beds apart, and scourge them. Then if they obey you, seek not a way against them. Lo! Allah is ever High, Exalted, Great.
•SHAKIR: Men are the maintainers of women because Allah has made some of them to excel others and because they spend out of their property; the good women are therefore obedient, guarding the unseen as Allah has guarded; and (as to) those on whose part you fear desertion, admonish them, and leave them alone in the sleeping-places and beat them; then if they obey you, do not seek a way against them; surely Allah is High, Great.
The Truth about wife beating from the hadiths is this:  
The Man is the absolute master in the house. Beating your wife is definitely allowed in Islam. It should not be as severe as beating your slave. Thats all. 
You can beat your wife (lovingly !!) pretty good. Make it count!! Just do not break her bones! If you do, she may be able to leave and get a divorce. 
So, bruising, blue marks, red marks, ..etc are all okay. Just dont go too violently in beating her so as to break her bones. In fact, it is preferred to use a stick or a whip to beat your wife with (easier than using your hand, thats for sure!!). This is what I deduced from an honest reading of the Quran and the Hadith about wife beating. 
www.youtube.com/watch?v=e6Z9GmL3PFY
www.youtube.com/watch?v=-h_RaXdvlTY
This is the face of taliban justice. This is 19 year old Bibi Aisha. Her own husband cut off her nose and ears. Forced into marriage aged only 16, she ran away from a life of abuse, but was caught. After trial by the taliban for bringing shame to the family, this was the punishment. Her husband carried it out and left her to die on a mountain side in Orison province, Afghanistan. The "religion of peace" is not a religion of peace, it's a religion of death, and those who say other-wise are only fooling themselfs.
Toma ejemplo de los talibanes con su sharia